Friday, September 6, 2013

Emotional or Physical cheating?

Emotional or physical cheating, have you made up your mind yet?  It doesn't mean one hurts more than the other, it’s just the fact that you knowing which one it is puts a specific image or idea in your head that slowly kills you. Who cares if someone cheats on you or Vice versa right? Hopefully you questioned by question because it would be ridiculous not to care if someone cheated on you or if you cheated on someone. However there is always a reason for the cheating incident to take place. There are no actions without motives. There will always be that one thing to inspire you to do something in particular, as in this case, to cheat. Some people cheat just for the sexual satisfaction, others just do it to get back the feeling of satisfaction as a human being and comfort. They have grown to miss that special feeling so much that even though they know it’s wrong of doing, they still might do it for the butterflies that were long time missing in their stomach. Is it their fault? Who knows, some things are just meant to be mysteries, but something we do know for sure is that there was or is a reason for that specific action. Maybe you can say it’s something unique or something as abstract as a sculpture. Like art, it all depends on how you view it, absorb it and feel it. Don’t be judging anyone for their actions related to cheating because maybe one day you might fit the same shoes and will probably then know what it feels like to be in that situation. At that point is where you will realize why that person made those decisions.
So just how we all make our own decisions based on the reality of that moment, we should also let everyone else make theirs. Something we shouldn't forget is to never make decisions or pick what you think is better for someone else at any point in time, because once you start thinking for the better of someone, that’s when you start caring for them. And once you start caring for them, that’s when you have no clue where “cheat” stands in that situation. Sometimes it hits you right in the face or if not it just disappears as if you had no clue it even existed any more.

So do you still care about which cheating category you fall under or is the new question now, why did the categories fall under me?

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