An example of how cheating begins

What type of cheater are you?

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Trying to have a smooth night

“Why don't you hold my hand?” Asked Daisy, I start to think damn a lot of people come to the mall, maybe I should wait until we get inside the movie theater. What if someone I know sees me and tells my girl!  Oh well, we watched a movie and I had to change the settings on my phone because it kept vibrating! (Little advice: tell your girlfriend you’re sleepy and that you’re going to bed early before heading to the movies.) The trailers are still playing and I’m getting messages left and right. I’m starting to panic so I decide to tell Daisy that I’m going to buy soda and popcorn so that we can enjoy the movie better. Now in wasting $15 just to cover up and tell my baby good night.

After the movie I start throwing options because I didn't want the night to end just like that. I think to my self-what can I do that'll make her say damn he’s so sweet/romantic. Besides the fact that the night was still young, I wanted to keep spending some time with her because we were both enjoying each other’s company so much. A Stroll down the beach sounded perfect. So I thought of somewhere that I could take her and the place we went to was just right. Full moon, lounge chairs and even music can be heard from a nearby bar, we were having a blast at this point. But once again I get a call and text from my girlfriend. It practically ended the night because she continued to call and text nonstop so I decided to call it a night and took the other girl home.

This is a story that happened to a person that I know, and he was to remain unknown because if he was to get caught, it wouldn't be pretty for him at this point in his relationship. Sometimes people are trying to the impossible to spend time with someone that isn't even their significant other, rather than actually spending that time and energy on the ones that they truly love and love them back as well. 

Ask to make sure

Question is it really cheating when you're single and you’re talking to 3 girls and may have scammed/hooked up with each one? Let me tell you about this one time at Band Camp. Let’s just say 2 of these ladies were heartbroken recently by assholes. They were looking for a fun time and I guess I was at the right place at the right time.  Now this wasn't any crazy fantasy or anything, it was just 3 beautiful days of my life. It was as if they all wanted me for themselves and at the same time. The one that caught my attention the most was the one which was very funny and for some reason I didn't get bored of hanging out with her. I wish I could say her name but it is just too risky.

I had to try to avoid all of them from meeting each other and just pretended as if I was just friends with them, when in reality I had a thing with each of them. So is it really cheating if I’m technically not officially dating any of them but still mess around with other girls? When we go by the rules, I am free to do what I want because I am single and that means I have no restrictions of whom and when I can talk to someone and that other person can’t get mad because she knows I’m right. If we put our values and morals into play, yes this would be something wrong to do but it wouldn't fall under the category of cheating. This is where everyone decides whether it is cheating or not based on their beliefs and experiences.

Maybe next time if this is one of your issues, why don’t you be upfront with the person and ask them the rules to the game, that way she won’t get mad if she finds out or so you won’t think about fooling around with other girls, just to be safe with her and not lose her.