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Question is it really cheating when you're single and you’re talking to 3 girls and may have scammed/hooked up with each one? Let me tell you about this one time at Band Camp. Let’s just say 2 of these ladies were heartbroken recently by assholes. They were looking for a fun time and I guess I was at the right place at the right time.  Now this wasn't any crazy fantasy or anything, it was just 3 beautiful days of my life. It was as if they all wanted me for themselves and at the same time. The one that caught my attention the most was the one which was very funny and for some reason I didn't get bored of hanging out with her. I wish I could say her name but it is just too risky.

I had to try to avoid all of them from meeting each other and just pretended as if I was just friends with them, when in reality I had a thing with each of them. So is it really cheating if I’m technically not officially dating any of them but still mess around with other girls? When we go by the rules, I am free to do what I want because I am single and that means I have no restrictions of whom and when I can talk to someone and that other person can’t get mad because she knows I’m right. If we put our values and morals into play, yes this would be something wrong to do but it wouldn't fall under the category of cheating. This is where everyone decides whether it is cheating or not based on their beliefs and experiences.

Maybe next time if this is one of your issues, why don’t you be upfront with the person and ask them the rules to the game, that way she won’t get mad if she finds out or so you won’t think about fooling around with other girls, just to be safe with her and not lose her.