Like I said before and ill go ahead and say it again! When someone hears the word "cheating" negative things comes to ones mind. I can relate to this because for me the word cheating ended a relationship that I once had with a special girl. Let me start off by saying that if you are going to accuse someone of cheating, you either better have the facts ready to be shown on the table or you better have seen it happen with the two eyes that god gave you! I was accused for cheating on my partner at the time, with some other girl that I believed would not even come close to entering the picture of making sense as to how and why I would cheat and especially with that girl. She even broke up with me and made it seem as if she was 100% sure that I had cheated on her. This news was given to me by surprise when I wasn't even back home, I was at North Carolina and not even by her. The fact that she didn't even try finding out the truth or talking with me about it, before even making a decision made me mad. She still ended up breaking up with me thanks to stupid rumors that she had heard from her "close friends".
This was obviously not true because I didn't really cheat on her but according to her and her dear friends I had.
Cheating always takes any situation and turns it into a bad one. If you aren't 100 % sure that your partner or anyone else has cheated, then please remain your mouth shut. You not only ruin other peoples lives but sometimes even your own.
Hey Grover! Interesting blog. I totally agree that when you hear the word cheating I can think of so many negative things. I think trust is a big part of a relationship and many people need to be able to trust their partners in order to have a healthy relationship. Trust can go along way. Great Job!
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