Thursday, September 26, 2013

Why men might cheat?

Most men cheat on their partners but that doesn't mean that all women are saints either. However when women cheat, for some reason most of the time they have solid reasons to do so, men on the other hand are just in it for the heck of it. Let me tell you why men cheat on their partners and I will also give you a slight understanding of what goes through inside their head. 
Men can cheat on you if they feel sad or unhappy because of the relationship that they are in or still cheat on you if they are the happiest man alive and content with their present relationship. Why? It’s just simply because they are men. It’s obviously no excuse but that's just the reality. I'm not saying that there aren't men out there that actually don't cheat, because there are, and congratulations to them. Thanks to those guys, women still have hope to find "the one" and that's what makes them stand out of the bunch.  
A guy will cheat on you no matter how tight you have the leash on him. Although men are constantly cheating, I believe that sometimes it’s the other women's fault. A guy will cheat when the opportunity seems to be too easy to pass especially when the plate is served and ready to eat with no problem. Another reason maybe because they aren't satisfied with their relationship so they seek to find someone else that can satisfy their need or just make them feel more comfortable with no drama around them. Then comes temptation, which kills a guy because most of them can't control themselves sober so imagine being tempted under the influence. The only thing above temptation would be the idea of getting caught in the act of cheating. Sometimes the men love the feeling of doing something which is totally wrong and inappropriate because it brings a certain rush to them that makes them feel like a "bad ass". 
No matter what the circumstance is, it is very probably that a guy can cheat on their partner, especially if the girls are flirting and looking for him to cheat with them. But like i said, not all guys are like that. Everyone has their own personality and acts based on it. Some guys may have been cheaters but now have changed their ways either to better themselves as a person or because they have found a girl that can change their mentality into knowing that it’s something wrong to do and isn't worth doing when you're hurting the one you care for. Men will be men but just remember that some choose to change and others simply don't give a shit.

1 comment:

  1. after reading this, it concerns me... i understand that cheating is wrong and not all guys will cheat on their partner... but what are some of the ways that the partner can over come or forgive the person that cheated on them... can you do that? is the saying true " once a cheater, always a cheater?"

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