Monday, September 2, 2013

Would you be mad?

If you are in a relationship and find out your partner cheated on you, would you be mad? Maybe that’s a stupid question after all. But would it make a difference to how angry you are if you found out which type of cheating it was? Either a one night stand or instead it was actually a very connected emotional relationship that your partner began to have with someone else but with no physical touching. As a normal person in the heat of the moment you would get furious and would just pay attention to the simple fact that you found out that they cheated. Afterwards you would want to listen to the details and by then you would be able to answer that question.
For most people “physical cheating” is the official way of cheating, anything less would just count as something normal. This is why people do what they do because they have a mindset that lets them feel as if they are not really cheating unless they do something physical.

If you believe physical cheating is the one that is worse than emotional then that’s your opinion. But what if your partner really just made an honest mistake and wants to change? That’s where you have to decide whether or not you are going to believe them or just move on. It is said that “once a cheater, always a cheater” but that is not 100 percent true. Just always try to remember to never make choices or promises when you are too happy, too sad or furious. Breathe and let everything go with the flow, because at one point in your life you will know for sure that all things happen for a reason. 

2 comments:

  1. Love this post. Sometimes it's hard to forgive those who have betrayed you in such a way. Things usually never turn out to be the same, but I so know a few people that were able to overcome being cheated on by their significant other. I 100% agree with not making choices while you are angry or in the heat of the moment! I'm pretty site we are all guilty of doing this at one point. At the end of the day, I feel you have to take a deep look with the situation at hand and see if its really worth fighting through. P.s. cheating is cheating no matter the form, just don't do it!

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  2. I believe in forgive and dont forget im so sorry if you cheated on me once chances are you didnt love me enough and you will do it again. ugh i hate cheaters! lol

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