If you are in a relationship and find out your
partner cheated on you, would you be mad? Maybe that’s a stupid question after
all. But would it make a difference to how angry you are if you found out which
type of cheating it was? Either a one night stand or instead it was actually a
very connected emotional relationship that your partner began to have with
someone else but with no physical touching. As a normal person in the heat of
the moment you would get furious and would just pay attention to the simple
fact that you found out that they cheated. Afterwards you would want to listen
to the details and by then you would be able to answer that question.
For most people “physical cheating” is the official
way of cheating, anything less would just count as something normal. This is
why people do what they do because they have a mindset that lets them feel as
if they are not really cheating unless they do something physical.
If you believe physical cheating is the one that is
worse than emotional then that’s your opinion. But what if your partner really
just made an honest mistake and wants to change? That’s where you have to
decide whether or not you are going to believe them or just move on. It is said
that “once a cheater, always a cheater” but that is not 100 percent true. Just
always try to remember to never make choices or promises when you are too
happy, too sad or furious. Breathe and let everything go with the flow, because
at one point in your life you will know for sure that all things happen for a
reason.
Love this post. Sometimes it's hard to forgive those who have betrayed you in such a way. Things usually never turn out to be the same, but I so know a few people that were able to overcome being cheated on by their significant other. I 100% agree with not making choices while you are angry or in the heat of the moment! I'm pretty site we are all guilty of doing this at one point. At the end of the day, I feel you have to take a deep look with the situation at hand and see if its really worth fighting through. P.s. cheating is cheating no matter the form, just don't do it!
ReplyDeleteI believe in forgive and dont forget im so sorry if you cheated on me once chances are you didnt love me enough and you will do it again. ugh i hate cheaters! lol
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